For the last 3-4 days he hasn’t called to check up or see how I am doing, He just texts me one word “morning”, and that’s it. I am over feeling this way, I want a man who is emotionally mature to be there for his woman, especially when he claims he loves her soooooooooooooo much, like he says he does.
you can have a peak now, it’s called “Flag It”.) If your man says he’s overwhelmed with work or whatever is happening in his life, then this is his way of “flagging it”, he’s letting you know where he is at.
Some women don’t flap as much as they stonewall – they can become passive aggressive and unhealthy “powerplay”, when all he wanted was some self-time. Most of the time women know what they should be doing, yet they do not listen to this knowing, they override it and end up in emotional and relationship poop! As a result you stop taking calls and only respond to a couple of his messages and when you see him you are a little distant because you don’t want to be hassled by him… Tell him to keep up the constant contact and to keep asking her to make time for him? Did he listen to her when she told him what’s going on with her? He didn’t pay attention to her needs, instead he made it about HIM and because of that she started withdrawing. Can you see that to start of she was clear with him and was hoping he’d understand.
When he’s pulling away it’s time to look at your balance between “Interested and Independent”. You also have a boyfriend who you’ve been with for about 12 months and HAS been going really well, except things have changed a little.
This does not mean your relationhip is doomed – on the contrary.
When he pulls away, or withdraws from the relationship, is the exact time that you get your ‘make-or break’ moment and get to show your high value.